Look, some people are born to host, and some people are born to just show up and enjoy the snacks. My wife, Emily? She’s the best host. Everything always looks Pinterest-worthy, the food is top-notch, and the best part? She makes everyone feel included. Seriously, if she invited a rock to the party, that rock would leave feeling like it just made ten new friends.
Hosting isn’t just about decorations and themed food—it’s about bringing people together, anytime, anywhere. And if you’re someone who loves hosting, great! If not? Just showing up is half the battle.
The Magic of an Invite
Emily started hosting back in college with a weekly crepe night. Every Tuesday from 9 p.m. ‘til whenever, people would show up, eat crepes, and make connections. New friends, old friends—everyone was invited. And that’s the key to good hosting: it’s not about perfection, it’s about inclusion.
If you love hosting, invite people. If you don’t? Just go. Seriously, attending is a gift, too. It can be nerve-wracking to meet new people or make small talk, but it gets easier the more you do it. And guess what? The more you show up, the more you’ll be invited to things. People appreciate when you take the time to be there.
And even if life is too busy to attend, getting invited makes people feel loved. That’s the beauty of gathering together—it’s not just about who comes, it’s about who feels seen.
Party Ideas That Work Year-Round
No matter what season it is, there’s always an excuse to get together. Whether you’re hosting or just suggesting ideas to a friend who is a host, here are some foolproof get-together ideas:
1. Crepe Party (Emily’s Signature Move)
Crepes are the perfect crowd-pleaser. Set up a toppings bar with:
- Nutella (a must!)
- Fresh fruit
- Whipped cream
- Peanut butter
- Biscoff spread (you’re welcome)
2. Book Exchange Night
- Bring a wrapped book you love with a short description written on the outside.
- Make it a white elephant-style swap so people can steal or pick a new one.
- Bonus: it’s a great way to discover new reads without committing to a full bookstore haul.
3. Craft Night
If you like crafting (or just like pretending you do while eating snacks), try:
- Making holiday garlands
- DIY bows (like these Valentine’s ones)
- Personalized bookmarks
4. Movie Night (aka: Excuse to Watch RomComs)
Nothing beats a night in with cozy blankets, popcorn, and a feel-good movie. Bonus points for matching pajamas.
5. Cooking Night
- Pick a dish to learn together—bread is always a hit! Here’s a simple bread recipe to try.
- Cooking together means built-in conversation starters and a guaranteed delicious reward.
6. Cookbook Potluck
- Pick a cookbook.
- Have everyone make a different recipe from it.
- Enjoy an epic feast without the stress of making everything yourself.
Hosting Essentials (or Just Helping Your Host)
If you’re hosting (or want to be an MVP guest and bring supplies), here’s a list of party must-haves:
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No matter how you gather—whether you’re hosting, attending, or just sending a “sorry I can’t make it” text—the point is connection. So make plans, invite people, show up when you can, and keep the spirit of gathering alive all year round.
And if you’re lucky? You’ll leave with new friends, great memories, and maybe a plate of leftovers.
