You might be asking yourself, “What should my child be working on this summer?” and usually the answer has something related to academics…
Maybe your child does need some brushing up on some math or reading… but the most important skills your child needs to learn can’t really be taught in the classroom… unless it’s my classroom because I teach it ALL… or so I try!
This summer, help your child learn independence.
Many of the skills that make children successful in school have very little to do with academics. They have to do with responsibility, problem-solving, communication, and confidence.
Can your child make their own breakfast?
Can they pack a bag for a day trip?
Can they help with laundry?
Can they order their own meal at a restaurant?
Can they solve a minor disagreement with a sibling without immediately asking an adult to step in?
These are the skills that build capable, confident kids.
As a teacher, I’ve noticed that students who are willing to try, make mistakes, and figure things out often have an easier time navigating challenges than students who have every problem solved for them.
Summer provides the perfect opportunity to practice these life skills because there is usually less pressure and more flexibility. Learning doesn’t have to happen at a desk. It can happen in the kitchen, the backyard, the grocery store, or on a family vacation.
Let your child help plan a meal. Give them a small budget to manage. Have them read directions for a project. Ask them to help navigate during a road trip. Encourage them to take ownership of age-appropriate responsibilities.
Will they make mistakes? Absolutely.
That’s part of the learning process.
As parents, it can be hard to watch our children struggle. We naturally want to step in and help. But some of the greatest growth happens when kids are given the space to work through challenges on their own.
Of course, keep reading. Visit the library. Practice a little math. Explore new interests.
But don’t underestimate the value of teaching your child how to be capable, responsible, and independent.
Years from now, they probably won’t remember the worksheet they completed in July.
They will remember the confidence they gained from realizing they could do something on their own.
And that’s a lesson that lasts far beyond summer.
I officially have one more week of school before summer break and believe me when I tell you that I am counting down the days, the hours, and the seconds!
I’ll probably take a break from school related topics, unless that is what you want me to keep blabbing about!
But…. shoot me some things you want me to talk about this summer! I’m all ears!
-Justin
